How Should Millennials Approach Finances Before Marriage?
Financial Tips for Millennials on the Road to Marriage
Millennials—generally defined as those born between 1981 and 1994—have faced a unique set of financial hurdles. From rising student debt to uncertain job markets and now the economic aftershocks of a pandemic, reaching financial stability has been no easy feat. As more millennials approach major life milestones like marriage, financial planning becomes even more important.
Here are some key tips to help you and your partner manage money wisely and plan for a secure future together.
Invest in Your Future
You might be feeling stable right now—living comfortably, working a good job, and maybe even sharing a home with a new dog. But the only constant in life is change. Industries evolve, work environments shift, and job requirements adapt.
To stay prepared, consider investing in your own skills. That doesn’t necessarily mean enrolling in a degree program and taking on more debt.
Look into:
Online courses and certifications
Professional webinars or workshops
Mentorship opportunities
Books and resources relevant to your field
Upskilling improves your marketability and keeps you competitive, no matter what comes next.
Build an Emergency Fund
If the past year has taught us anything, it’s the importance of being financially prepared for the unexpected. Whether it’s job loss, a medical emergency, or an unforeseen repair, having a cushion to fall back on is essential.
Start by aiming to set aside three to six months’ worth of essential living expenses. This fund isn’t for vacations or impulse buys—it’s for serious emergencies that could otherwise derail your finances.
Start Saving for Retirement Now
Yes, retirement might feel far off—but the earlier you start, the easier it will be.
Even if you have access to a 401(k) through your employer (especially if there’s a match), most of your retirement savings will come from your own contributions. And with Social Security's future uncertain, you can’t count on government support alone.
Start small if you have to. The important thing is consistency. And if you change jobs often, consider rolling your 401(k) into an IRA or your new employer’s plan to avoid early withdrawal penalties and taxes.
Remember: your best ally in retirement planning is time.
Be Smart with Credit Cards
Credit cards offer convenience, but they can easily become a trap—especially when you're just starting out. Many young adults fall into the habit of overspending, mistaking available credit for actual wealth.
To avoid future stress:
Use credit cards mindfully
Pay off your full balance each month
Avoid racking up high-interest debt
Good credit habits now will benefit you and your partner later—especially when it comes time to buy a home, apply for loans, or start a family.
Where Do You Start?
It can all feel overwhelming, but the first step is simple: talk with your partner.
Open communication about money, goals, and values sets the foundation for a strong financial future together. Once you're on the same page, you can create a plan that works for both of you.
At NEST Financial, we’re here to help. Whether you're preparing for marriage or building toward future milestones, our team can guide you through every stage.
Contact us to set up a no-pressure, no-commitment introductory meeting.